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Motivation

 
Anyone knows the meaning of  the song  "Motivation"?  I think it has something to do with Oral Sex. I can be wrong guys but am jus saying!!
 
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Kelly Rowland - Motivation (Feat. Lil' Wayne) Lyrics Video
http://twitter.com/#!/KickThatHoeKelly Rowland Single Version Of motivation Lyrics Video.
Right now it is the song of the century. I think Kelly did a good job on this one with Lil Wayne.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Now the lyrics says it all!!
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Kelly Rowland - Motivation (Explicit) ft. Lil Wayne
Music video by Kelly Rowland performing Motivation. (C) 2011 Universal Motown Records, a division of UMG Recordings, Inc.

Cougar or no Cougar?

 
Hey Guys!
 
I know it has been a while but I am here to get your perspective on what you consider to be a  Cougar. Would you consider a female dating someone that is 10 or 5 years their  junior  to be a Cougar? I need your take on this as age should not be a factor if you are really in love with someone.
 
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Mya - The Best Of Me ft. Jadakiss
Music video by Mya performing The Best Of Me. (C) 2000 Interscope Geffen (A&M) Records A Division of UMG Recordings Inc.
It may depends, but what would you call a male who is dating someone 10 or 5 years their  junior? You want to figure that one out.

What is Cheating?

 
What do you consider as Cheating?
 
In my perspective, cheating is wrong in some instances. I consider kissing and sexual contact as cheating I don't know if you do but that is if you are in a committed relationship. Unlike me my relationship is complicated so I dont have to worry about cheating......lol.
 
Any intimate contact with anyone that is not considered to be your actual lover is considered as cheating and that is my perspective what are yours on this topic?

Why do men cheat?

 
Why do men cheat?
 
Men are often considered as the breadwinner or the man of the house. Really now? My perspective of them is that they can be coniving, devious, self-centered and too demanding if you ask me but lets not debate on that.
 
 
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Keyshia Cole - I Changed My Mind
Music video by Keyshia Cole performing I Changed My Mind. (C) 2004 A&M Records
 
Men who cheats are most likely those who considered themselves to be a "Dappa" but we cannot stop a man from cheat. Right?
 
Lets look at why most men cheat?
 
  • Men tend to cheat because it has become the norm for a man to have more than one sexual partner.
  • Men likes to think that it is cool to have women fighting over them as most women tend to love the competition.
  • Men become bored after being with someone over a period of time.
  • Men are adventurous and likes to try new things as in most cases the "Wifey" as we would call them become too complacent in the first part of a relationship then throws up themselves after a period of time.
  • Men are hard to satisfy and they love variation.
  • Men are considered to be Sex Addicts and I think this is the one of the most common reasons.
 
There are other reasons why men cheat but I was just elaborating on the most common reasons. What do you think are some of the reasons why men cheat and do you think they cheat more than women?

A secret I was told to share. (Permission Given)

 
Hey!
 
Got something to tell y'all. I have a friend that is much younger than I am and she is still in high school. You might be wondering why I'm friends with someone so young. To be honest she has a personality to die for and I don't think that her age should have anything to do with our  friendship. With that being said lets get into it.
 
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Ludacris - Runaway Love ft. Mary J. Blige
Music video by Ludacris performing Runaway Love. (C) 2006 DTP Records, LLC
 
 
 
Keisha (not her real name) is 16 years old and is in the 11th grade at a prominent high school. She lives with her mom who is at work most times or abraod doing business. Her mom always left her in the care of  her oldest aunt who seems to envy her for being spoilt as we would say. On a particular holiday night not so long ago, she was staying at her aunt's who had invited some friends over. With the friends being at the house, Keisha as we call her  was having problems adjusting to the new faces and personalities.
 
A particular person, she had an eye for who is much much older than she is, also had an eye for her. Her aunt not knowing of the little upcoming fling was in the dark for the rest of the night as things transpired between her neice and one of her friends. Weeks went by and Keisha and Jack (not his real name) got closer and their relationship got more intimate. Jack is almost 50 years old and Keisha is 16 years and now she is 5 months pregnant without her mom or aunt even knowing it.
 
I asked her how long she is planning to keep it a secret form her family and school friends as she is still attending school. Her health is deteriorating and her mom doesn't even realize it. As her friend I provided her with the best advice that I can and told her to be straight with her mom as she will know how to help her in getting in a school until she has her baby and is ready to attend a different school. In this case a mother needs to be aware of changes in their children as well as their physical appearance.
 
I had followed her to the clinic the other day where she got tested for HIV/AIDS she is positive and her babydaddy is a married man. How convenient. Don't you think? Her family and friends are still in the dark and I am so mad at Jack for taking advantage of my friend.
 
 
 
 
 
 

Women who cheats.

 
Why do women cheat?
 
In most instances men would be the ones who are expected to cheat. Right?
I know your answer will be yes but lets be factual. Most women are independent and has the mind frame that they can do whatever they want as they are spending THEIR own money. True, but that should not dictate the way they behave. I know women, most are married and are career driven women who tend to cheat on their husbands.
 
Being a cheater. A woman cheating on her husband.( Intrigue Secrets)
 
 
 
Now let's look into some of the most common reasons why women cheat on their husbands or spouses:
 
  • Women tend to be attracted to other men who are not their husbands/spouse because of  monetary reasons or a personality difference.
  • Women tend to become uninterested in sexual activity with their particular person especially if they have been together for a long period of time. This however is one of the most common factors.
  • Some women tend to be more adventurous than some and this can be an instance where a younger person is more romantic than the person that they are with.
  • Some women were born to cheat and not every women thinks the same.
  • Some women cheat because their partner is cheating on them and thinks that it is better if they just keep the score even by cheating on them as well. 
  • Some women cheat because of certain emotional needs. Either the husband/spouse does not provide emotional support or they tend to be abusive.
  • Some women cheat because they are attracted to the same sex and cheating does not have to be with the opposite sex. Most women would seek counselling in coming to terms with this particular desire while most just go with the flow (in some instances).
  • Some women tend to not be confident within themselves about their physical appearance and yes this is true and will turn to the person who provides them with a compliment on their appearance.
 
There are more factors that contribute to a woman cheating but for now we will end here. Feel free to add any any additional factor that there is and it was nice chatting with you all. Until next time, be safe!

A secret that is no longer a secret!

 
Hi Everyone!
 
I am Shamequa the owner of the Intrigue Secrets website. I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you again for visiting my website!
 
At the age of  5 and a half, I was molested by my my aunt's boyfriend. I have kept this secret from that time until now and it is the first time I am opening up about it.
 
With the increase of suicidal cases in Jamaica, I have decided to speak up about this. In most cases children are molested and are often threatened not to speak about it. Today I am letting the world know that this is a continuous trend and as parents we need to look out for signs in our children. No one asked so I did not tell anyone about it.
 
This horrible experience made me what I am today. I am rough and I am proud to say that I am rough. I am street smart and aware of most of the things that are happening everyday. I want parents to be inquisitive as they ought to be and ask questions, whether the child be male or female. I ask my son if anyone touches is private parts and even asked if his dad touches him in ways he did no like. It might sounds mean but I am not.
 
Because of secrets, children are taking their own lives and I wanted to commit suicide at a very tender age because of what my Uncle-in-law did.
Parents we need to be more that a mother or a father to our children, we need to be their best friend.