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A secret that is no longer a secret!

 
Hi Everyone!
 
I am Shamequa the owner of the Intrigue Secrets website. I would like to take this opportunity to say thank you again for visiting my website!
 
At the age of  5 and a half, I was molested by my my aunt's boyfriend. I have kept this secret from that time until now and it is the first time I am opening up about it.
 
With the increase of suicidal cases in Jamaica, I have decided to speak up about this. In most cases children are molested and are often threatened not to speak about it. Today I am letting the world know that this is a continuous trend and as parents we need to look out for signs in our children. No one asked so I did not tell anyone about it.
 
This horrible experience made me what I am today. I am rough and I am proud to say that I am rough. I am street smart and aware of most of the things that are happening everyday. I want parents to be inquisitive as they ought to be and ask questions, whether the child be male or female. I ask my son if anyone touches is private parts and even asked if his dad touches him in ways he did no like. It might sounds mean but I am not.
 
Because of secrets, children are taking their own lives and I wanted to commit suicide at a very tender age because of what my Uncle-in-law did.
Parents we need to be more that a mother or a father to our children, we need to be their best friend.
 
 

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Jaye Smilez on Monday, April 25, 2011 5:20 PM
So sorry to hear sweetie... and your so right this is getting out of hand and needs to STOP .... keep strong and ur doing the right thing by asking your son love ya xoxo
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queenb on Tuesday, April 26, 2011 11:01 AM
wow!!this is shocking!!sorry to hear..no child should ever have to deal with carnal abuse..keep strong,educate your son and continue to raise awareness so this disgusting epidemic can stop!!
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sweetprox on Tuesday, April 26, 2011 11:18 AM
i no what it feels like to be molested i went tru the same thing and things like these has caused me to be a much angrier and rough person. i've struggled with not just molestation but also rape and i think that parents should play a vital role converse with thier children and stop behaving primitive about being scared to talk to kids and feel as if chuildren are acting as adults when they ask about sex or any adult topics many of these topics should be discussed but in a sutle way...congrats on the website and continue to do well :-)
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sweetiepie on Tuesday, April 26, 2011 12:15 PM
Each 1 teach 1, your experience has made you stronger and will be a motivation to others....Always be strong!
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Edicine on Tuesday, April 26, 2011 12:30 PM
I can't say I have been there, but trust me, I have coulselled people you have been ther for even MORE THAN 1 TIME! Yes, It's really shocking the things people have to go thru everyday..... The world as we know it is not a safe place for our children, and people are being hurt by the seconds. We need to be on the look-out for the "evil" in our days and try as best to get them some help. I have found out that most people who molest other people have a psychological disorder, and could possibly be doing it to escape the pain they felt in previous time.
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monique on Tuesday, April 26, 2011 4:11 PM
im so sorry to hear that babes. God is with every step of the way if he was'nt you would not be the wonderful person you are today.
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Richard Reid on Tuesday, April 26, 2011 4:46 PM
Very interesting blog, I hope you stay strong and positive.
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Deannie on Wednesday, April 27, 2011 6:27 PM
oooo crap, i am glad my dad is so much in my personal life he reminds me of salt he is overflowing. Lift you head up and do ur thing u r indeed a strong black woman hats off to you. Muah!!!!
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yolanda daley on Monday, May 2, 2011 12:46 AM
Shamecca I am sure this will inspire people who have gone through similiar situations to feel comfortable in speaking up great site all the best and continue to stay positive.
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Its a Secret on Thursday, December 15, 2011 3:31 PM
its often said that the world is not a safe place for our children, but what choice do we have? We need to make the world safe for them as there is no other place to be. Having gone through such traumatic experience, i must express my sentiments to you on you brave and boldness and what better person it is to show that all is not lost. You have clearly shown that you are able to rebound from such situation and so can others. I hope you sharing this information is an example and will be followed through by others. GOD BLESS YOU!!!!!!
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