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Anyone knows the meaning of  the song  "Motivation"?  I think it has something to do with Oral Sex. I can be wrong guys but am jus saying!!
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Kelly Rowland - Motivation (Feat. Lil' Wayne) Lyrics Video!/KickThatHoeKelly Rowland Single Version Of motivation Lyrics Video.
Right now it is the song of the century. I think Kelly did a good job on this one with Lil Wayne.
Now the lyrics says it all!!
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Kelly Rowland - Motivation (Explicit) ft. Lil Wayne
Music video by Kelly Rowland performing Motivation. (C) 2011 Universal Motown Records, a division of UMG Recordings, Inc.

Cougar or no Cougar?

Hey Guys!
I know it has been a while but I am here to get your perspective on what you consider to be a  Cougar. Would you consider a female dating someone that is 10 or 5 years their  junior  to be a Cougar? I need your take on this as age should not be a factor if you are really in love with someone.
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Mya - The Best Of Me ft. Jadakiss
Music video by Mya performing The Best Of Me. (C) 2000 Interscope Geffen (A&M) Records A Division of UMG Recordings Inc.
It may depends, but what would you call a male who is dating someone 10 or 5 years their  junior? You want to figure that one out.

Why do men cheat?

Why do men cheat?
Men are often considered as the breadwinner or the man of the house. Really now? My perspective of them is that they can be coniving, devious, self-centered and too demanding if you ask me but lets not debate on that.
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Keyshia Cole - I Changed My Mind
Music video by Keyshia Cole performing I Changed My Mind. (C) 2004 A&M Records
Men who cheats are most likely those who considered themselves to be a "Dappa" but we cannot stop a man from cheat. Right?
Lets look at why most men cheat?
  • Men tend to cheat because it has become the norm for a man to have more than one sexual partner.
  • Men likes to think that it is cool to have women fighting over them as most women tend to love the competition.
  • Men become bored after being with someone over a period of time.
  • Men are adventurous and likes to try new things as in most cases the "Wifey" as we would call them become too complacent in the first part of a relationship then throws up themselves after a period of time.
  • Men are hard to satisfy and they love variation.
  • Men are considered to be Sex Addicts and I think this is the one of the most common reasons.
There are other reasons why men cheat but I was just elaborating on the most common reasons. What do you think are some of the reasons why men cheat and do you think they cheat more than women?

Women who cheats.

Why do women cheat?
In most instances men would be the ones who are expected to cheat. Right?
I know your answer will be yes but lets be factual. Most women are independent and has the mind frame that they can do whatever they want as they are spending THEIR own money. True, but that should not dictate the way they behave. I know women, most are married and are career driven women who tend to cheat on their husbands.
Being a cheater. A woman cheating on her husband.( Intrigue Secrets)
Now let's look into some of the most common reasons why women cheat on their husbands or spouses:
  • Women tend to be attracted to other men who are not their husbands/spouse because of  monetary reasons or a personality difference.
  • Women tend to become uninterested in sexual activity with their particular person especially if they have been together for a long period of time. This however is one of the most common factors.
  • Some women tend to be more adventurous than some and this can be an instance where a younger person is more romantic than the person that they are with.
  • Some women were born to cheat and not every women thinks the same.
  • Some women cheat because their partner is cheating on them and thinks that it is better if they just keep the score even by cheating on them as well. 
  • Some women cheat because of certain emotional needs. Either the husband/spouse does not provide emotional support or they tend to be abusive.
  • Some women cheat because they are attracted to the same sex and cheating does not have to be with the opposite sex. Most women would seek counselling in coming to terms with this particular desire while most just go with the flow (in some instances).
  • Some women tend to not be confident within themselves about their physical appearance and yes this is true and will turn to the person who provides them with a compliment on their appearance.
There are more factors that contribute to a woman cheating but for now we will end here. Feel free to add any any additional factor that there is and it was nice chatting with you all. Until next time, be safe!